Thursday, September 6, 2012

Saving A Relationship


Marriage is about life long partnership and relationship. Both sides need to understand that once they are married, they'll be entering into a totally different world of sharing and caring. They need to adjust and fit into each other's world which by the way should have changed once they got married.  Key element to saving a relationship for married couples is effective communication.

But why do marriage break up?  Marriage break up happen for a number of different reasons for different couples. Some blame it to lack of understanding and communication between couples. They don't see eye to eye anymore, he started doing his things and she's left alone or vice versa.

Some couples got married young and for the wrong reasons. They were too young and were very haste in their decisions. After some time, things started to go wrong. There's no more understanding between the two of them. Matter become worse when they communicate less and less between them.

Marriages generally break when the minds of husband and wife are not compatible with each other. If their likes and dislikes do not agree, the end result is divorce or breaking up or separations. Friendships and relationships are successful if the temperaments are identical and both think in the same direction in the same situation.

Will marriage eventually break up? Yes and No. Yes, if you don't take it seriously throughout your life and if you don't nurture it, marriage will break up eventually.

Saving a relationship to ensure longevity and happiness in marriage should be shared and cared jealously against all odds.  Keep on communicating, keep on listening, keep on adjusting and understanding, sharing and caring ~ this will help to ensure a lasting and happy marriage. And this what makes a marriage successful.